The Ultimatum: Queer Love
Discussion Questions

Would you recommend this movieTV show? What did you like / dislike?
 

Was there anything that was particularly insightful / or that resonated?
 

Do you think some contestants would have been happier if they had embraced polyamory?

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Was there anyone on the show who had qualities you look for in a partner?

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Do you feel any elements of queer relationships were missing / underrepresented in the show
 

The show had couples who faced the dilemma of ‘should I stay or should I go?’ - do you feel this is the beginning of the end for a relationship? Or is it a healthy reflection?

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Do you think marriage remains an important part of society? If yes, do you think it should be?

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Do you think marriage should be expanded to allow three people to marry? If yes, do you think this will happen? Should you be allowed to have unlimited marriage partners?
 

Do you feel the words ‘forever’ and ‘never’ should be used between partners/friends/lovers?

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What do you feel are the top reasons why monogamous relationships are monogamous? What do you feel is limiting these relationships from opening up?

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To what extent do you feel it’s OK to nudge monogamous friends to try ethical non-monogamy?
 

The show brought couples together where partner A wanted to get married, whilst Partner B didn’t. How would you navigate this if you were Partner A? And how would you navigate this if you were Partner B?

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Would you ever go on a reality TV show to resolve a challenge in your relationship?

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Do you feel there’s sufficient ethical non-monogamy representation in film & TV? If no, how could this be improved?
 

Do you feel there’s sufficient LGBTQIA representation in film & TV? If no, how could this be improved?