Boundaries​

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How do you personally define boundaries? What are some boundaries you've set in your life?

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How are boundaries different to telling someone what to do / not do?

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How do you navigate when someone dislikes with your boundaries?
 

How do you differentiate between a healthy boundary & a reaction to insecurity/fear?

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Solo Polyamory

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If anyone is solo polyamorous, would they like to share what it means for them?

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What benefits and challenges do you feel solo polyamory brings?

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How can you balance independence whilst having emotional connections?

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Is it possible to have be both independent whilst having commitments to others?

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In what ways can solo polyamory challenge societal norms around relationships?

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ENM Breakups

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Do you feel ENM breakups differ to monogamous ones?

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Can it feel more difficult to know when to end an ENM relationship compared to a monogamous ones?

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How do you handle the impact of a ENM breakup within your polycule / community?

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Thoughts on what an 'ethicial break-up' could look like?

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How do you navigate if something is a temporary challenge, or if a breakup is necessary?

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Attachment

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Are familiar are you with your own attachment style?

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What challenges have you experienced with attachment within ENM?

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How has your attachment style shaped your ENM?

Does anyone take steps to ensure they don't get anxiously or avoidantly attached?

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How do you cultivate secure attachments?
 

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Play Parties

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How have your experiences been attending play parties?

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Have you ever felt uncomfy at a play party? How did you handle it?

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How do you navigate boundaries when attending with friends / partners / exs etc.

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How do you prepare mentally / emotionally / physically before attending a play party?

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Aftercare post-play party - discuss.

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What's your approach to consent when interacting with multiple people?
 

What guidance would you give someone attending their first play party?
 

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